3 Things to Avoid In Order to Become an Elegant Woman – written by Jonita D’souza http://www.exploringfemininity.com/
Who does not want to feel elegant, graceful, confident and intuitive? In my work with women, I have noted that these are 4 common qualities that several woman aspire to become.
Yes, you can buy materialistic objects like nice dress, shoes, bags, etc. to look elegant, graceful, confident and intuitive. But in order to really become that woman, you need to take an internal check of how you are ‘being’ in your everyday life.
There 3 crucial things that you need to avoid in order to fully and truly embody your elegance, grace, confidence and intuition.
- Judgement – Good or Bad. Right or Wrong. Fun or Boring. Easy or Difficult. Beautiful or Ugly. Every day, we’re surrounded by judgments, whether on the television or in our own minds. Judgement closes our heart. When you judge someone, you hurt yourself and the thing or person you are judging. Instead try practising discernment. Underneath your judgements are the core values that are most important to you.
- Jealousy – When we see other women achieving their desires and dreams, somewhere deep inside of ourselves we hear ourselves saying – ‘I wish I had that.’ Or ‘I wish I could do that.’ Even though we may show on the outside that we are happy for them, within we are not raging! Next time when you feel jealous remember that it is an indication of your unfulfilled deep desire. So use this emotion to guide you on getting closer to your desires and dreams.
- Gossip – Gossip is something so many of us do without realizing it. It is one of our most widely shared and most unconscious addictions. Most of the times it is unnecessary, unkind and sometimes even untrue. Gossip is giving negativity and that’s exactly what you receive back. Here’s a quote from Buddha that can help you avoid gossip next time – “If you propose to speak, always ask yourself, is it true, is it necessary, is it kind”
Elegance is not derived from superiority or being important. Rather, it’s about making others feel important and showing empathy. An elegant, graceful, confident and intuitive woman knows to speak with integrity, knows to channel her emotions and feelings for her good and follows the guidance of her body to live life on a daily basis.
Jonita D’souza is a Feminine Lifestyle Expert, an Author and Creator of Exploring Femininity Ltd., assisting busy women to reconnect with their femininity and sensuality so that they can experience more energy, fulfilment and pleasure in their personal and business lives without burn-outs using various modalities like NLP, EFT, Psychic Reading, Shamanism, Law of Attraction, Kinesiology, Affirmations, Clearing Statements, etc. Jonita believes that it is the responsibility of the 21st century women to explore their femininity, so that they can create a sustainable life for themselves, for their loved ones and for generations to come.
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