For me feeling good about myself is accepting myself for who I am, the good, the bad and the ugly. So I am going to keep it real and honest. I thought about my cooking experience and I am going to be brutally honest with you. “Hi my name is Desmore and I suck at cooking and I am a pro at burning pots, pans and I accidentally destroy my kitchen utensils.” I admire women who are truly amazing in the kitchen and I on the other hand am not a traditional domestic goddess. When it comes to donating cakes to Callum’s school I am at the cake store, getting my cakes ordered. Truth be told when I attempt to bake my husband and son is my greatest support system (they are probably shaking in their boots). When I do bake, it’s a nightmare. Unfortunately we couldn’t eat any of the goods as they were burnt. I am learning to be kind to myself, most importantly that trying to be perfect, have all your ducks in a row and master everything in picture perfect settings, is so unrealistic and exhausting. I am learning to love the moments no matter what they are, as they are. Some days we just got to put our hands up and say let it go, let it go! Truth be told it feels so good to be yourself 1000%.